Thursday, February 18, 2010

What can i do to clear my mind of suicide?

I've been thinking too much of just going away...dying as if i was never born, but i fear the afterlife of hell or heaven. What should I do?What can i do to clear my mind of suicide?
Check out this site:


http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org鈥?/a>





and this one:





http://suicidehotlines.com/





and this one:





http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/





Then buy a tub of chocolate chip ice cream, rumor has it there is gold at the bottom of each tub=]What can i do to clear my mind of suicide?
You must think this ';your life is the most beautiful present that you have';


You can have problems, i don t know what is the really reason to think about suicide, but please consider that the suicide is no a solution, you can look for a professional help.


They can help you to clear your mind, to indicate the way to go on.


The life sometimes is not easy, we have to learn to live it, we have to go through the difficulties and try to find a solution.


You can think that is easy for me talk about this because i am not in your shoes, but sincerely consider de value of the life.
keep your mind busy, the following will help





* Read a book (which is new to you) with headphones on i.e listening to a song that is your favourite.


Now try to understand what is written in the book. If you dont read the page again and again till you feel tiered and then sleep.


When your mind is engaged in two different work (which involves your concentration) you dont have space for any other thought.





or





* teach maths and science (esp physics) to children younger to you.
You cant force them from your head, believe me, been there tried that. Your best bet in the short term is to do something that takes your mind off of whats bothering you. Watch a good movie, talk to a friend, read a book. Talking to a friend about it is probably the best for the long-term as you'll be able to get input on whats wrong and support as a friend. I can assure you, as someone who's only reason for still being around is a malfunctioning firing mechanism, its not worth it to end your life.
Start listening to meditation cd's or inspirational messages. You could even start drawing pictures of flowers, trees or brightly colored objects. If the thoughts persist, see your doctor to make sure there isn't a chemical imbalance. If all checks out, the doctor will probably recommend you to psychology-psychiatry, department. Good luck! and God bless.
Well you should be telling this to your parents, doctor, or school counsellor.





But things in general that helped me was:


*listening to music (metal!!)


*playing musical instrument (i swear without this i would be dead, playing music is so powerful. Music has such passion and emotion it really helps)


*just talking about it all to my best friend


*when i wake up in the morning saying ';today is going to be a good day. My back is not sore. I am happy, etc'; and listing anything remotely good as being great in your day. Sounds reallly gay I know, but I was desperate and it really works





But talk to your parents, or tell a friends and get them to come with you to the counsellor so they can help you. Hope I helped, best of luck xx
Get busy with something else. Whether they admit it or not lots of people think about killing themselves. Luckily the vast majority doesn't do it. The point is that you aren't alone in how you feel. Times get tough.





I feel like killing myself all the time because I have no job and no gf and everyone around me does. I know I never would though because I'm young and things can change in the blink of an eye.





You will get through it. There is so much going on in your life that you don't appreciate and realize. Think about it. If you can't do it on your own then seek professional help.
have you tried reading the Bible? i know its a little intimidating, but trust me is you pray and read with a sincere question in your heart you'll receive an answer. Our father put us all here for one reason, to prove ourselves worthy to return to him in heaven. I have been in your shoes before, tired of life kicking the crap out of you, just have faith in the Lord and he will lead you where you need to be. just think of the many life you have affected, and the impact you've had on them and would it would do to them if you were not here today.


Please feel free to email me at farrell.josh@live.ca


I will pray for your peace.


respectively, Josh
im glad you brought this up because im 14 which is just slightly below your age and this has crossed my mind a lot but then when i think about it who ever you go to in this world you will hear the words ';why is this happening to me'; i know its really hard to express your feelings when your feeling this way because it sounds so easy no one will understand that pain that we go through when that thought crosses our mind of how we want to die that shows what you have been through and i know how much it hurts right now but unfortunately killing your self is not the answer think of the other people yes they may have it worse but we cant feel that so to everyone their own problems are big for example some one who has a high fever might feel like dieing but then there might be some kid who lives in a war infested country but one thing i can say is that you are defiantly not alone although it may not seem like it god is with you and that's the only thing that keeps me going because i feel like i have no one here on earth but whenever i have a problem i go to my room close the door and talk to god because one thing i know is that he hears me and my Secret is safe with him he created us and he should how to keep us safe and happy


';think of life as a game whats the point of it if there are no challenges';


i hope whatever it is that your going through will be solved and god bless you %26lt;3
Estimate your life


and never think of doin that again


thats stupid





the life is so beautiful


and theres many things you can do


Get a work


do some exercise


read


go out and


meet new people


talk w your friends


SING!


study


theres a lot of things you can do


but


the most important is


ESTIMATE YOUR LIFE!!





good luck


:)
don't do it! it's proven that no matter how bad things are in your life, they WILL get better. its all a matter of time.


i dont know if you believe in god, but christians believe if you commit suicide, you go directly to hell.





just find someone to talk to abou tyour problems, maybe a councler. also, try working out. it produces endorphins which makes you feel happier!





wish you all the best :)
well i believe in God and like 98% of all the prophecies in the bible have already happened so i think i will see the 2nd coming of christ in my life.. sometimes i get depressed and stuff so i try to read my bible this usually helps cuz i sometimes get depressed for no reason at all it kinda frustrates me.
I can do everything through him who gives me strength.





[Philippians 4:13 NIV]





Suicide is murder. It is always wrong.





If you have anything to tell me, just e-mail me. I'll get back to you.
Find a friend that you trust and vent about your problems. Go to the school guidance counselor and talk to them... get someone to talk to. Most people are going to tell you, ';oh, you have so much to live for...'; and blah blah blah. Just tell them to shut up and that you need someone to listen to you.
http://www.befrienders.org





http://www.klove.com 1-800-525-Love 24/7 with licensed counselors





Read some good books: ';Testimony of Light,'; Helen Greaves,


';The Great Divorce,'; C. S. Lewis,


';The Path of the Higher Self,'; Mark Prophet,


';The Master of Lucid Dreams,'; Dr. Olga Kharitidi.





Do some gardening, care for a pet, take nature walks.
taking up a type of martial arts really helps clear your mind and lets you relax. or if you take like kick boxing or yoga it helps you feel better. also you could go out have fun with friends. fine the things in life that you love. and show yourself that there are things worth living for
meditate and relaz and try go and see a councellor!!!!!!!!!


DON';T WORRY HUNNY EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE OK!!!!!!!!:):):) JUST STAY POSITIVE AND UPLIFT YOURSELF WHEN YOUR FEELING DOWN!!!!!!!!! THINK ABOUT THE GOOD THINGS IN LIFE NOT THE BAD THINGS


xx


HOPE I HELPED


liv


p.s all those things will just wash away if you see a councellor don't be worried about consulting a close friend!!!it would always help:)
Think about this: all these people telling you not to commit suicide, have never tried it.





isnt it ironic?.





obviously, it must not be that bad, because everyone that ive ever heard of doing it, has never come back to say otherwise.
MY PREDICTION IS THAT YOU'RE YOUNGER THAN 20??. honey, you're blessed. if you have parents who support you, friends who love you %26amp; just ANYONE who loves and accepts you, then why go away? Do you want to hurt your mother or father? Life is too short, sure. But ending it is not going to solve anything. if your trying to run away from any situation ( mean friends, an ex boyfriend who broke your heart, family dilemma) it will surly follow you in your after life. trust hun, been there done that %26amp; I almost succeded... until i realized ';hey my life is not perfect, but ITS MY LFIE %26amp; WELL.. I CANT HELP BUT LOVE THE IMPERFECTIONS';





I would say BE MORE APPRECIATIVE OF WHAT YOU HAVE NOW. They're other people in this world going threw waaayy worst than us...





what we go through seem microscopic than what others would....





JUST A THOUGHT SWEETIE.. I'M 19! BUT GALD TO BE ALIVE...





SO SMILE %26amp; LIFE LIVE!!


YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE %26lt;3


SO MAKE IT WORTH YOUR WHILE...





GOD BLESS, VICTORIA.





IF YOU NEED ANYTHING, EMAIL ME!!


I GOT YOUR BACK : P
Punching a pillow, talking to someone close to you, long walks, music, sports, screaming, find a new hobby, go do something for you like go get a new hair cut or get a pedicure something like that, or counseling?
YHINK ABOUT ALL THE GOOD THINGS IN YOUR LIFE. YOUR FAMILY YOU FRIENDS AND THE PEOPLE CHO CARE ABOUT YOU. THINK ABOUT HOW MUCH THEY WILL SUFFER IF YOU WERE GONE FOREVER. tHINK ABOUT SOMETHING EXCITING THAT YOU ARE LOOKING FORWARD TOO. IF YOU DONT HAVE ANYTHING THEN GET INVOLVED IN SOME TYPE OF ACTIVITY LIKE A SPORT, CLUB AN ORGANIZATION OR VOLENTEER WORK. PLEASE DONT BRING YOURSELF DOWN...... ROGHT NOW THINGS FEEL DOWN BUT I PROMISE THAT YOUR GOING TO GET BETTER!
Get some Prozac or Wellbutrin pills prescribed...





You're suffering from a brain disease known as Clinical Depression...





The pills they have now days actually can cure you of those thoughts, but you need to get on them ASAP, or your life is in serious danger...
Get involved in a religion if you're not already, look to your friends and family for help, remember the things that used to make you love life in this first place, and if all else fails, seek professional help.
Stop thinking those thoughts. Please please please. there is so much more out there. You have to change what it bothering you, not just run away from it. Do what makes you happy. Don't just end it.
Get help.


Do not ever commit suicide. It is the worste mistake anyone can make, Life is a gift. No matter how much it sucks.





Seriously, go to a shrink.
well you can think of genatalia and feet and tissues and television remotes and pencils and ponys and yahoo and of corse me
YOUR END IS HERE WHIT US ,LET THE REST OF YOUR LIFE BE WHIT US ,YOU CAN DO A LOT OF THINGS ,DONT STOP IS VERY BAD ,MAYBE YOU CAN TELL ME ,WHAT I A CAN DO WHIT MY LIFE?PLEASE BE AROUND .
Pray, and ask God to help you in your thought life. Read the bible. Email me if you need more help, this is not something to play around with
pick up an activity or hobby that you enjoy, so you look forward to something everyday.
If your serious, call 1-800-SUICIDE. They must help.
Smoke a joint and pop in a Bob Marley CD.
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