Yes, it is very hard for women . And speaking for myself I had 2 children before I learned the trick of ';climax';. What worked for me was to focus on the moment only. To think only about him and him banging into me and that feeling. Sometimes I would think about him with another woman and it would help me to ';climax'; becuase I would get jealous. Women have to learn how to move their bodies so you can always get that pressure on that spot. It took a while for me but now I'ma master and can ';climax'; anytime.How can I clear my mind so that I am able to climax during sex?
When you say you are thinkin about ';every little thing';, are they mostly sexual things? Do you have concerns about sexuality or are they unrealted things like the cost of gas and pie recipes? I would say if it is the furst, it would be good to have a sit-down with your prtenr and talk about your concersn. If it is inrelated stuff, maybe you are bored. I actaully dissagree about trying to force yourself to concentrate. Instead, i suggest if the ideas are unretaed to what is happeneing, to focus on what sort of things will get you ';in the mood'; or possible reasons why you feel shut off from the sex you are having. I think you can not force yourself to relax, but that you can find out why you don't feel relaxed and work on that.
block everything out and close your eyes and think about whatever makes you horney that usually does it for me
Come to me baby :) I will make you feel orgasm :) :) :)
The girls orgasm is not only based on sex, but thoughts also, you shouldn't be thinking about mowing your garden if you want to feel orgasm, try to think about the guy you are having sex with. How you like him etc, everything should be OK.
jeez...first calm down and stop thinking so much during sex! yea you're never going to climax that way!
if it really is that hard for you not to think about anything else...why not talk (dirty) to your partner..you cant think and talk at the same..or can you? LOL!
that may even turn you on even more and help you climax faster...its about the g-spot and clitoris but it can also be in your mind.
and if you still cant stop thinking about it get yourself a vibrator...that will help you out a lot!
You just have to be very focused during the whole thing... Pre-play is a very important factor, building up is a key to climaxing as well as enjoying it alot more.
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